“G” for Gifted — The Last Gap

13 May

When I was young, I was lucky enough to have a mom that recognized my talent for getting straight A’s and a need to learn more. I was 9 years old. Although she made a modest income as a nurse’s assistant, she enrolled me in a private academy for gifted children. Although I didn’t want to leave my public school, and at first felt out of place at the Academy, I quickly enjoyed the academic challenges and rigor. I look back on those days with fondness, and had the opportunity to teach there briefly.

This mother’s day I’d like to dedicated this post to my mother, who, despite a small income and a skeptical husband, understood my need for real educational opportunities. If not, I would’ve quickly gotten bored with the remedial lessons and found other things to occupy my time…and they may not have been educational.

Gifted children are the last “frontier”; the last aspect of public education to get adequate recognition and support. Misconceptions about what “gifted” really means, and what their needs are sometimes get in the way of real support. It’s awful to imagine that maybe a huge percentage of children who act out and drop out of school are simply frustrated with the lack of real academic rigor and substantive information in class. The fact is, gifted children are different. They see, hear, interpret and speak differently. For the gifted child, learning, relating and reacting appropriately can be a difficult and painful process. They are perfectionists, needful of precision and logic, specific information, and they are acutely self-aware. If the last few decades have been about raising awareness and support for special education–children with real learning disabilities–then the next few should be focused on not just ignoring our bright star students, but nourishing their academic curiosity and helping them reach their potential. Who knows? They are our next generations’ leaders and innovators.

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Mitt Romney’s a Coward?

5 May

Mitt Romney has shown us a hint of what might be if he’s elected President in November. His indecision and backtrack regarding his foreign relations spokesperson Ric Grenell’s resignation will damage his courage and decision-making image for months to come.

Romney and his people insist that they tried hard to persuade Ric to stay, but it was clear Grenell wasn’t going to be hung out to dry. And who could blame him? He was never given a clear answer from his boss about how to address this issue (which was on nobody’s mind except Brian Fischer’s and his anti-gay zealots), and move on to more important points on the agenda.

So what was the point in hiring Grenell in the first place? If his sexual orientation was a “non-issue”, as Romney’s team insists, why didn’t Romney defend his choice in hire, especially when he himself said he wouldn’t discriminate that way? And if he really wasn’t approving of Grenell when he shared this information, why did he hire him? He must have known his base conservatives would not let this hire pass, and letting his fanatical constituents dictate how he would treat his new star hire shows us all that when it comes to standing up for your decisions, especially unpopular ones, he is NOT up to snuff. We wish we could say “Shame on you, Mitt”, but this doesn’t surprise us enough to say it.

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Book Review: Testament

25 Apr

Now we have tackled religion and their figures before in our post: Religion, A Woman’s Worst Enemy?, and we mean every word of it’s conclusion that today’s religions are far too constrictive and anti-woman to be of any use or help to modern feminist goals. However, this Jesus, described by 4 of this closest people: Judas, Mary, his mother, and Simon, is at odds with the brutal and cynical atmosphere of his world. His less-than-reputable origin and upbringing makes him resentful towards his mother, and seeks to find true redemption through the conversion of his most challenging disciple Judas. This depiction of the innovative preacher lends us a more believable and human Jesus, full of conflicted feelings and idealistic goals;  goals that in the end kills him.

It makes us wonder: why can’t we just love and embody Jesus’s teachings without his divinity? Why can’t we just accept him as a great man who preached forgiveness, altruism and monotheism? Do we have to believe his birth was a miraculous immaculate conception, that he can walk on water, turn water into wine, and heal the sick and blind? That he rose from the dead, and knew that he would be betrayed by his most charismatic and intelligent follower? Maybe he was an illegitimate child of a merchant’s daughter, or that he used basic medicine and common sense to heal those who came to him. Why is this depiction somehow less than accepted?

Science and the modern age has now shown us that the fantastical aspects of Jesus’s life are now either highly improbable or impossible. This may have soured the religious to scientific discovery, but we believe it can revitalize Jesus’s lessons for this time. We don’t have to be distracted by the obviously ridiculous and focus on his real message: that of forgiveness of others, challenging the status quo, good works as real spiritual substance, and a merciful God who loves and forgives everyone.

Now, again, we here at The Violet Room don’t subscribe to any religious belief system or spiritualism for the reasons stated in our earlier post, but we find this look at the historical Jesus far more interesting and valuable than the most embellished and glorified depiction of Jesus anywhere. Even if this is a fictional writing…and hey, isn’t the standard depiction just as fictional?

Review: ♥♥♥♥

Recommended?: Yes

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Aaand, we’re back.

7 Mar

Whew! It’s been a long time since we last posted. It’s been a cold winter, and we’re ready to start spring flinging, reading, cleaning and tasting. Goodbye serious winter, hello fun flinging spring!

Douchebag #1 of 2011: Sandusky and PSU

29 Dec

This year’s prized position of Douchebag of the Year goes to Jerry Sandusky and the boys’ club of douches in Penn State. And who couldn’t agree? Some epic douchiness transpired at Penn State this year where assistant coach Sandusky exerted his power to allegedly rape boys, and not only was this known by Head Coach Joe Paterno, but also the Athletic Director Tim Curley, and Penn State Senior VP of Finance and Business, Gary Shultz. (Really? Joe reported to them and not the police? Hmmm… I smell cowardice.)

What allegedly occurred: In 2002, a graduate assistant coach witnessed Sandusky anally raping a boy after hours in the Lions’ locker room shower. Shaken, the witness reported to his superior, Coach Paterno. He, then, reported it to the Athletic Director, and so on. And then, nothing happened. The grand jury report details a systematic failure by Paterno and the admin to act on reports of rapes and abuses, effectively turning a blind eye to Sandusky’s despicable behavior. The PSU athletic department and administration aided a child molester in covering up his crimes and allowing them to persist for far too many years. And for what? A football legacy? Please. Despite what the rioting students think, the life of that boy (and many others) is worth more than a football championship. Douches. Period.

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Douchebag #2 of 2011: Roger Goodell

29 Dec

As the NFL season tentatively starts, fans have little to cheer about these days. The labor dispute wasn’t supposed to end in a lockout. It’s pretty obvious that the millionaire owners of the league weren’t willing to compromise about better financial transparency, and care for loyal players; players that risk REAL lifelong brain/body injuries for the sport. And in the middle of it, NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell went right along with the owners while they hoard a massive portion of earnings that generated 9 billion dollars last year. How rich do they need to be?

Adding insult to injury was the Commissioner’s infantile handling of run-of-the-mill plays and so-called violations. Many fans recall the “Tom Brady Rule”: no more sacking Tom Brady and other teams’ precious QBs! Fans also have called Goodell’s NFL the “No Fun League”. Makes sense.

For those of us who don’t give a rat’s ass about football, it’s easy to skip this post. But for me, a league commissioner’s job is about fairness for owners AND teams, and making sure the game is played well. Suspending Ben Roethlisberger for no reason other than his image took a hit after the rape charges, fining players for hitting other players (wait, isn’t this football?) and pandering to the rich owners, it’s easy to see how this douche ruined football this season.

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Douchebag #3 of 2011: Indiana Gov. Mitch Daniels

29 Dec

Indiana Governor Mitch Daniels defunded the state’s Planned Parenthood this year. ‘Nuff said, right?

As if this revelation in the battle on Planned Parenthood isn’t enough (I went into more detail on this recent measure here.) there was speculation surrounding why he did it: to satisfy his uber-conservative voters who were miffed about his so-called “soft” stance on social issues like reproductive health. (credit: bitchmagazine.org/post/douchebag-decree-mitch) He thinks he can win the 2012 Presidential election by cutting off much-needed care to thousands of poor/low-income women and families? That’s another tick on the douchebag meter. OH! That’s right! He didn’t even run! On NBC Indianapolis, he has this to say about his decision not to run:

It’s no secret that family comes first with me and that is a consideration [for presidency]. This is not a mountain you jump off by yourself, you take others with you and that matters to me.

Unfortunately, instead of him actually jumping off a mountain, this decision prompted other super-nosy conservative states to follow suit with their own plan to strip PP of funding. Thanks so much, Mitch. Way to improve the abortion rates in the US by hindering education on the subject. Douche.

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